The BEST MOM Ever
Go from being a tired and overwhelmed mom to become the Best Mom Ever who can handle any challenge with her children with ease!
By Gail Friend
The Best Mom Ever
This is a 3 month highly personalized live group coaching for moms with kids between 3-12 years old who want to wake up every day feeling like an amazing mom, has clear personal boundaries, deep soul connection with her kids and can take on any challenge with them.
This program is 12 weeks long and starts Monday 12 June 2023
Go from being a tired and overwhelmed mom to become the Best Mom Ever who can handle any challenge with her children with ease!
Whether you are really struggling to navigate the pressures of family life and your children’s behaviour or you just desire a deep soulful connection with your child, you will walk away from BME with a new perspective, tangible steps that you can take to develop deep soul connection with your children AND create the respect and cooperation from your children without the chaos, shouting or nagging.
I want to help you build a family life that you love and lasts for years to come, and you can only do that with a clear roadmap and real deal support in a safe container to learn and practice.
Imagine how it would feel if you….
✨ Stop the anger, frustration and shouting with your children when they don’t listen as you set consistent boundaries and move into a space of deep peace that remains as you build your child’s accountability.
✨ Stand in your truth and gain the respect you deserve from your children and activate cooperation and understanding with them in each interaction you have!
✨ Shift from being an emotional rollercoaster to being a mom able to maintain your emotional state, feel satisfied and have crystal clarity on how to manage your child’s emotional outbursts and their emotional development.
✨ Lose the fear, doubt, worry and need to protect your children and activate your true power and influence as a mom so that you know without a shadow of doubt that you can guide your children with love and strength to guarantee they can handle any of life’s challenges.
✨ Be free of the guilt and people-pleasing mom role and shift into being a Queen mom who takes time for herself, isn’t afraid to say NO and loves, values, nurtures, and respects herself!
✨ Get the pleasure and fun back in your daily family life where you no longer feel so tired and overwhelmed.
✨ Gain a deeper understanding of yourself so you are easily able to overcome the unconscious blocks that hold you back in life and motherhood so that you can feel energised and inspired and experience the ease, flow, rest and depth in family connection you deserve and want.
This is perfect if you…
✅ Are a Mom who is dedicated to give your children the best you possibly can.
✅ Are a Mom who wants to guarantee that by the time your children are adults you have truly done all in your power to ensure they become successful, fulfilled adults.
✅ A Mom who wants to know just how to balance effective boundaries AND develop a deep soul relationship with your children at the same time.
Ultimately this program is for moms who take the responsibility of parenting seriously and are eager to learn the skills to not only make their lives easier, but to guarantee their success in raising empowered, fulfilled children.
This is NOT for you if you...
❌ are looking for a quick fix
❌ aren't willing to try something new and shift the way you currently do things
I went from fear, doubt and over tired with a special needs child whom I was told would never read or write to fulfilled, confident and ultimate success with my boys. Greg (22) my special needs son is living completely independently, studying (reading, writing, exams) his passion to be a field guide and Andrew (25) a super successful engineer doing Million Rand deals for his company AND I have an amazing relationship with them! Inside BME I will teach you the exact strategies I used to get where I am today and how I’ve helped my clients feel the ultimate fulfilment and increase their impact on their children.
We will not only talk about great discipline, effective boundaries and routines but also what it takes to develop your child’s mindset and emotional habits. That is what guarantees them becoming responsible, fulfilled adults. And of course, using the mindset and practice techniques to create YOUR fulfilment as a mom, and as a woman too.
Here's the thing with parenting your children that most people don't talk about
There is more required than just getting them through school and their day-to-day activities. There are different approaches, different timings, and different mindset shifts needed.
There is no one size fits all strategy to grow your children (each child has a different personality and set of challenges) that's why you need to lean into a different approach, different discipline strategies, and different parenting styles and THAT is what we will be covering inside of BME.
How I worked with each of my 2 sons to get their results, was completely different, because THEY are completely different people.
>>>It takes insight, a community, and the right support to raise children effectively!
What we will cover:
✨ How to gain freedom from shouting and frustration - get a deep sense of peace when you settle your emotions and feel heard regardless of what your children are doing.
✨Effective discipline strategies - feel powerful and in control without disempowering your children during power struggles and discipline moments, taking their different personalities and situations into account.
✨Create Deep Soul Connection with your Child - move from frustration and misunderstanding to open communication where you both feel heard and understand each other’s needs.
✨Develop your Child’s Emotional Regulation to Empower them – learn how to handle your child’s emotional outbursts and teach them to process their emotions effectively.
✨Establish Boundaries and Create Freedom - feel the relief in knowing exactly when and how to put in boundaries during discipline and when to give choices. That distinction develops the respect and accountability.
✨Revolutionise Your Routines – no more nagging, rushing and fighting in your morning, evening and homework routines. Have a system where your children learn accountability and do things on their own.
✨Activate Synchronicity, Flow and Understanding with your Partner and Family - move from the overwhelm of doing it all or feeling “in the middle and alone” to working as a team with your partner and other family members.
The Outcome
✨No more shouting, frustration and nagging.
✨You will implement a practical discipline system that guarantees developing your child’s accountability.
✨ Far fewer emotional outbursts and you will handle the few emotional outbursts with ease.
✨A confident mom that knows how to handle any conversation and situation with her child.
✨ A truly happy relaxed mom who knows in her heart what to do to guarantee an awesome relationship with her children
Here is the training breakdown:
✨ Week 1: Clarity in your outcome of what you need to develop in your children to guarantee success and how that looks in your day-to-day interactions with them.
✨ Week 2: Understand your own frustration, guilt, anger, impatience, fear and how to manage them effectively so you get relief and become far more influential with your children.
✨ Week 3: Understand how your perceptions and needs from your children influence their behaviour and how to develop the respect you want and deserve.
✨ Week 4: Integration and application of week 2&3 – real live examples and solving your challenges.
✨ Week 5: Handle power struggles and develop healthy power. Your child’s need for attention and how to develop that effectively. Develop true love and connection that doesn’t disempower your children. Uunderstand and handle lying – creating safe space for open communication.
✨ Week 6 : Handle your child’s negative emotions, tantrums, anxiety and anger. Teaching responsibility for their emotions. Developing a problem-solving mindset.
✨ Week 7: Integration and application of week 5 & 6 – real live examples and solving challenges.
✨ Week 8: Discipline: Establishing effective boundaries that develop accountability and how to remain consistent.
✨ Week 9: Discipline: Setting up agreement frames and consequences taking your child’s personality into account.
✨ Week 10: Revolutionize your daily routines from nagging and micro managing to developing accountability in your children.
✨ Week 11: Integration and application of week 8,9 & 10 – real live examples and solving challenges
✨ Week 12: Develop close sibling and family relationships without competition and fighting.
The key to success is when you can APPLY the theory to your specific situations – that is the goal on this 12 week course!
FAMILY TRANSFORMATION IS THE GOAL!
How it works
✨We meet live once a week (every Monday evening starting 12 June 2023) for 12 weeks for our 90 minute live group coaching sessions. The replays will be made available inside our private Facebook group.
✨There is “hot seat” available in every live session where you speak to me 1-2-1 applying strategies to your specific situation
✨You will have lifetime access to the Facebook group.
✨ You will have access to the pre-recorded training videos and workbooks which get released one module at a time. You get to go through the training videos and workbook and practice the strategies with your children. Bring your questions to the live group coaching sessions.
✨ You will have 1 year’s access to the pre-recorded training and workbooks
In addition to your trainings you'll have access to:
- My 4 Key Qualities to develop in your Children to ensure Success. Get exact words to use and questions to ask in your daily conversations to ensure your children develop a mindset to guarantee success and happiness.
- My Confidence Building Cheat Sheet. 4 x Daily conversations to have with your children to develop their confidence, moving them from resistance and withdrawal to courage and the willingness to try.
- Facebook group community for support and accountability
- Homework and challenges
This program is for the invested moms who are ready to develop deep soul connection with their children AND create the respect and cooperation they deserve, without the chaos, shouting or nagging.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS:
1- Will the trainings be recorded??
2- If I can't attend all the live coaching sessions, what can I do?
3- Are there any pre-recorded trainings in BME?
4- When will BME be run live again?
5- Is this program a good fit for me even if I'm new to parenting.
6- Where can I learn more about BME?
7- If I sign up for a payment plan but want to pay off my payments earlier than what is scheduled can I?
What My Students Have Said:
Why work with me
If you are like most moms, you have a treasure chest of knowledge and wisdom you want to share with your children, but getting them to understand and act on it, is not easy. Let’s be honest, if you were meant to do it on your own you would have already done it easily. It is time to give yourself the investment you need to thrive as a mom.
This is an invitation to skip the 10 000 hours of your precious time and frustration it would take to master everything you need to know to make sure you get it right with your kids and have the peaceful home you want. Why not open yourself to some love and guidance and skip the unnecessary struggle?
Here is how I am different from other coaches, I am not just a coach, I am a healer, guide and mentor. I give you a deeper understanding of yourself, so you are easily able to overcome your unconscious reactions that hold you back from your consistency. I bring you relief from fear during your process, so that you know without a shadow of a doubt that you are developing your children effectively especially when it feels uncomfortable.
You don't have to wait!
It is time to feel seen and stand in your truth and power and be the mirror for your children to do the same.
Here is what I want you to know about the level of my work and how I am unlike every other coach out there. Not every coach has
- Is a certified NLP practitioner, NLP coach and EFT practitioner that can combine these skills to support you through your transformation.
- 20+ years of personal experience of trial and error in applying and mastering the strategies they teach.
- Has worked with a child with perceived no potential to develop him to be a functioning adult where he is working, cooking, shopping and living independently.
- Has the love, empathy and passion to share her knowledge and make sure that you get the understanding you need to transform the challenges you face with your children and yourself.
- Will teach you the perfect mix of practical strategies and a soulful understanding of yourself so that you can remain consistent with the strategies.
- Knows how to hold the space for deep and lasting transformation.
What value do you place on having that “knowing” or certainty that you are doing all you need to, to ensure YOU and YOUR CHILDREN thrive?
JOIN ME NOW! Working with me will be the most transformational experiences of your life!