From Tantrums to Calm

Help your Toddler Thrive - Turn Emotional Chaos into Calm Confidence.

Tell me, does this sound like you?

You’re a parent, you are trying your absolute best and your toddler is constantly having meltdowns leaving you feeling powerless to help them because they can’t tell you what they need, and they are not understanding reason! No matter what you do, they still seem to tantrum, leaving you questioning whether this is normal.

When you had your child, you had this vision of them being happy and content because you would go to the moon and back for them, when in reality, parenting them is a challenge, they tantrum, you often don’t know what they need, they power struggle with you and all you want is peace and calm cooperation.

The thing is, tantrums are part of their emotional development and if you aren’t managing their tantrums correctly you can actually do harm to their emotional wellbeing. It is not just about them being happy.

And perhaps in their tantrum do you ever...

Feel stuck because you know you should be calm and guide them through it, but you also have to get things done!
Feel such guilt because you get so impatient and react when you know you should be calm and strong.
Feel frustrated when they tantrum over such irrelevant stuff, when you know you are giving them everything of your best.
Or you may feel so helpless because you can’t seem to get them to understand and just treat each other well!

And then you decide and go into the next tantrum with the best intentions, with love and care and you land up just screaming and shouting, only to find yourself doing it again tomorrow.

Or you worry that if this continues this way, they may be emotionally damaged forever. How do you know what’s normal and if you are getting it right?

This can get you feeling discouraged, and just want it to end so that you can have peace and calm. AND YOU CAN!

With a few small changes ALL OF THIS CAN CHANGE!

What if I told you it could be different?

Me (Gail), I am a mom with 18 years’ experience at mastering emotions and understanding how emotions affect every aspect of our relationships and potential in ourselves and our kids. Meltdowns and defiant tantrums are the starting point of developing emotional regulation. I dealt with loads of emotions in our home, my special needs son Greg, whom I could never get or understand with all his emotions, my older son with his anger and frustrations and my own emotions at our situation. Determined to have a happy home I found a way to truly listen to and understand emotions so that everyone felt heard and loved and empowered. I have now also helped 100’s of clients do the same.

My older son could express his needs and feelings openly and effectively and did not have to compensate his needs for his special needs brother.

My special needs son could process his emotions and take responsibility for them to get what he needed without projecting them on us.

I learnt to process and settle my own emotions, my reactions, frustrations, doubts, fears, so that I could create a calm, loving home.

I learnt how to get them to process their own emotions without feeling like I needed to fix it, that is what made everyone feel seen and heard and brought peace in our home.

And now I have created a system where you can do this with ease every single day.

I know that tantrums can get bumped to the bottom of your to do list every day, especially once they are over in the moment. We don’t even want to go back there, we are just relieved they are over BUT each tantrum and how you handle them is developing an emotional pattern in your child that will impact their relationships for the rest of their lives!

This is exactly why I created this solution.

I have taken my learnings over the last 18 years with my kids and
all my clients and compiled it into the
FROM TANTRUMS TO CALM online course
and I am so confident about this that I even offer a
7 day money back guarantee!

Introducing FROM TANTRUMS TO CALM

Move your toddler from chaos to calm, so that they truly feel loved and enough AND they cooperate well with you.

I must have this!

Here Is A Glimpse Into Your Future

You wake up in the morning and feel a peace inside. As your child goes through their tantrum phase, you feel confident and calm. You know just how to settle their fears when they have big meltdowns, you know just how to hold boundaries and develop their accountability when they tantrum and refuse to get dressed or to bath.

You start to notice that tantrums are fewer and far between, they don’t last as long, and your bond with your toddler has increased. You realise that it is in these difficult moments that you can actually grow closer, it doesn’t have to be the worst time of all.

Here's exactly how you get it...

From Tantrums to Calm moves your toddler from chaos to calm,
so that they truly feel loved and enough AND they cooperate well with you.

Why Choose Me To Help You With Your Kids?

I am Gail, a mom with 2 boys, one with special needs and I raised them as a single mom. While it was incredibly difficult and emotions were huge, I was determined to give them a completely different story to what I had as a child. I wanted them to feel completely safe and loved and heard while at the same time take responsibility for themselves.

Tantrums and meltdowns were the starting point of my journey to develop strong confident boys who could speak their minds and have kindness and empathy for others. I learnt to look beyond a toddler tantrum to what I was developing in them and that is what made it easier for me.

And in 18 years, my boys are now amazing. They are truly happy in themselves, they are okay with ALL their feelings and are know just how to get what they want without reacting to the challenges they face. We have a family that loves spending time together without phones and we like the outdoors together. I have also helped 100’s of parents to do the same. And NOW I want to help you!

I give you not just the WHAT but also the practical HOW for your emotions and theirs

There is so much advice out there, but applying the "how" is the challenging part. After seeing parents struggle in public places like restaurants, struggle at toy stores and at parties and seeing how they don’t know how to handle their kid’s tantrums even when they are trying their absolute best, I decided to create a way for parents to know exactly what to do in those moments regardless of who is watching. To feel so confident and get what they need .

And so, From Tantrums to Calm was created.

I truly believe that every parent can feel empowered to handle their child’s tantrums and meltdowns so that they have the peaceful loving home they want. It just takes learning a few skills.

You get 18 year's experience of trial and error in one simple system

Part of my training was going weekly to a master NLP coach for 10 years and making the changes within myself. It changed my life!

I then studied and qualified as an NLP coach and now use my 18 years of experience and trial and error to transform your life.

7 Modules with recorded lessons and a workbook for each module
You get lifetime access to recorded material.
AND you get a BONUS!
A BONUS module with how to prepare your toddler for when the new baby arrives

R650.00

Join Now!

This is for you, if you are:

A parent who is tired of feeling helpless during your child’s tantrums
A parent who wants to feel confident and in control that you know what you are doing during your child’s tantrum
A parent who wants a bigger understanding of how the way you handle your child’s tantrum affects their child’s emotional regulation for the rest of their lives
A parent who wants to empower their children to not just react emotionally when things don’t go their way
A parent who wants to know how to not react during tantrums so that they can feel calm and strong.
A parent who is committed to giving your children the best and want to become the parent your child needs during their tantrums so that they feel heard and develop a good sense of responsibility.

You Get All Of This Instantly

7 Modules

7 x workbooks

AND a BONUS Module showing you how to prepare your toddler for the arrival of your new baby

YES! YES! YES! I want this now!

You Are Protected With My 100% Risk Free Happiness Guarantee

From Tantrums to Calm has been designed to give you the exact strategies you need to move your toddler from chaos to calm, so that they truly feel loved and enough AND they cooperate well with you.

HOWEVER, I want you to know there is no risk in purchasing today.

Because if you don’t love From Tantrums to Calm you can request your money back in 7 days, no questions asked.

That is how confident I am that this mini course will help you get the peace in your home where everyone feels respected and loved.

From Tantrums to Calm is that powerful.

- Gail Friend

What are you waiting for?

The time is now. A more loving, connected family is waiting for you!